10 Signs He’s and Isn’t Into You

By Angel | December 17, 2008 8:28 am |

I am ready to bet that most of us at least once in a lifetime had problems with answering whether he loves me? question. Very often you can find an answer in a body language. The only one thing you should perfectly understand the signs he is sending:

  • distance

It the first sign, a boy that you like tries his best to be closer to you. It means that he wants a more intimate contact, and he doesn’t treat you like a friend anymore. He wants to be near you.


  • voice

Be very attentive and listen to him talking to his friends, if while talking to you his voice changes (actually, it doesn’t matter how), then he likes you. It’s pure anatomy. 

  • posture

He tries to look bigger and more attractive than he is … He will show his body if full beauty and explain you how comfortable you will feel next to him.  

  • conversation

He talks much more slower than usually. That is the way to make you feel comfy and cozy.

  • eyes

He is starring at you all the time and his eyes are locked on yours. 

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…and 5 signs your date isn’t into you

  • distance

This time everything is right on the contrary he tries to stay as far from you as possible and his main motto while talking to you Don’t Stand So Close to Me.

  • posture

When he likes you he will choose a posture that will allow his face to be right in front of yours. And if his shoulder is pointing your face – forget it, he is not in.

  • voice

He talks to you like you’re someone at the office — his voice is completely even and usual.

  • eyes

He looks right into your mouth or on your lips, he avoids eye contact, he may have some interest but it has nothing in common with a long-term relationship, I hope you understand what I am talking about.

  • body language

He is simply not your cup of tea, when a guy you like never mimics your body language, and never copies you.

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